"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so interesting situation

smoothtalker72

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coming home from a late away soccer game my team decides to stop for food at mcdonalds. we get inside and theres a down right gorgeous girl behind one of the registers. everyone wants to line up at her line and everyone is hitting on her. of course shes just eating it all up.

how would you go about getting a girl's number when shes being hit on left and right? especially in this situation, guys are hovering around her trying to get her attention so how do you come away with the prize? i didnt care to even try with this girl for personal reasons, although she was pretty damn hot. that and she lives a good 3 hours away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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smoothtalker72

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none of em got the number. thats what i was thinking tho that is going in after everyone else leaves and saying something like "i apologize for my teammates, when they lose games they just lose it completely". what shocked me was that some of them actually thought they had a shot at it going at her in packs. some of them were blatantly making asses of themselves just to get her attention
 

619joe

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^ seems like a good solid line there bud,i just wouldnt say the words "i apologize".

I know she was hot,but remember,you dont need to hit on every fine piece of ass you lay your eyes on.She lives 3 hours away so that is nother bad thing
 

jeffthechef

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i agree...don't get caught up about one girl..especially if there's many bad factors..such as distance...When you see a girl show interest in you at school make sure you make a move even if you're bad or nervous..like harold in harold and kumar go to white castle in the elevator scene..man he was horrible..but he did it..cause if you dont you'll regret it and start getting oneitus or settling

kind of off topic and related
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't Panic

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You could've just laid back and let your mates burn their chances and start a conversation with her later on.
 

SinJester

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Seperate yourself from all the other guys and you will come out on top easy. Basically, just do the opposite of everyone else =P It's times like these that ****y/funny, neg hits and all the other seduction techniques actually work. Those are the girls it is designed for.
 
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