"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

so interesting situation

smoothtalker72

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
131
Reaction score
1
coming home from a late away soccer game my team decides to stop for food at mcdonalds. we get inside and theres a down right gorgeous girl behind one of the registers. everyone wants to line up at her line and everyone is hitting on her. of course shes just eating it all up.

how would you go about getting a girl's number when shes being hit on left and right? especially in this situation, guys are hovering around her trying to get her attention so how do you come away with the prize? i didnt care to even try with this girl for personal reasons, although she was pretty damn hot. that and she lives a good 3 hours away.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

smoothtalker72

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 31, 2008
Messages
131
Reaction score
1
none of em got the number. thats what i was thinking tho that is going in after everyone else leaves and saying something like "i apologize for my teammates, when they lose games they just lose it completely". what shocked me was that some of them actually thought they had a shot at it going at her in packs. some of them were blatantly making asses of themselves just to get her attention
 

619joe

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2008
Messages
301
Reaction score
6
^ seems like a good solid line there bud,i just wouldnt say the words "i apologize".

I know she was hot,but remember,you dont need to hit on every fine piece of ass you lay your eyes on.She lives 3 hours away so that is nother bad thing
 

jeffthechef

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 23, 2008
Messages
675
Reaction score
13
i agree...don't get caught up about one girl..especially if there's many bad factors..such as distance...When you see a girl show interest in you at school make sure you make a move even if you're bad or nervous..like harold in harold and kumar go to white castle in the elevator scene..man he was horrible..but he did it..cause if you dont you'll regret it and start getting oneitus or settling

kind of off topic and related
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Don't Panic

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2008
Messages
15
Reaction score
0
You could've just laid back and let your mates burn their chances and start a conversation with her later on.
 

SinJester

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2007
Messages
1,226
Reaction score
44
Location
Australia
Seperate yourself from all the other guys and you will come out on top easy. Basically, just do the opposite of everyone else =P It's times like these that ****y/funny, neg hits and all the other seduction techniques actually work. Those are the girls it is designed for.
 
Top