"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So im starting to hear this more.....

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Basically the last couple of women that i have hooked up with have at some point mentioned something along the lines of "so are you planning on disappearing next week".......mostly implying that after sex i probably wont talk to them anymore.

I feel like i dont give that vibe to them but for some reason most girls think im a player after meeting me.

Do some of you get lines like this every now and then and how do you respond to something like this?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gangster Of Love

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That's their way of expressing their insecurity. If it is happening more and more, it means your game is running at a different level, and most women, not just the very insecure/low self esteem ones, will feel a little insecure.

That is their way of saying "Please don't just use me for sex, as I value you more and hope you see me more than just for one thing".
 

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Say something funny like... Yea I'm an alien sent to Earth to find out about mating patterns.......

Or if you want to see them again afterwards, you can invest by arranging another meeting or giving them a bracelet or something so they trust you.
 

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Tell them you're a secret agent and wil be going on a secret mission the next week. This will get a laugh out of them at first but when you do disappear it will make them think you really are a spy.
 

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it's a sign that you're starting to convince women that you're good with women. this is good.

i'd more or less flip it on them and say "depends on if you start stalking me or not" or "you can stay around as long as you don't get too obsessive", or whatever you want...

it doesn't really matter... it's a good thing that they're asking that...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Hey, I hadn't thought about that. Let me put it in my calendar."

*grab some note*

"Monday, disappear. Tuesday, disappear...Do you have an extra invisibility cloak?"
 

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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
Hahahahaha! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
ROTFLMAO!!!
 
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