"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So im starting to hear this more.....

Sicx

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Basically the last couple of women that i have hooked up with have at some point mentioned something along the lines of "so are you planning on disappearing next week".......mostly implying that after sex i probably wont talk to them anymore.

I feel like i dont give that vibe to them but for some reason most girls think im a player after meeting me.

Do some of you get lines like this every now and then and how do you respond to something like this?

Thanks in advance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Gangster Of Love

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That's their way of expressing their insecurity. If it is happening more and more, it means your game is running at a different level, and most women, not just the very insecure/low self esteem ones, will feel a little insecure.

That is their way of saying "Please don't just use me for sex, as I value you more and hope you see me more than just for one thing".
 

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Say something funny like... Yea I'm an alien sent to Earth to find out about mating patterns.......

Or if you want to see them again afterwards, you can invest by arranging another meeting or giving them a bracelet or something so they trust you.
 

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Tell them you're a secret agent and wil be going on a secret mission the next week. This will get a laugh out of them at first but when you do disappear it will make them think you really are a spy.
 

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it's a sign that you're starting to convince women that you're good with women. this is good.

i'd more or less flip it on them and say "depends on if you start stalking me or not" or "you can stay around as long as you don't get too obsessive", or whatever you want...

it doesn't really matter... it's a good thing that they're asking that...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"Hey, I hadn't thought about that. Let me put it in my calendar."

*grab some note*

"Monday, disappear. Tuesday, disappear...Do you have an extra invisibility cloak?"
 

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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
Hahahahaha! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
ROTFLMAO!!!
 
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