"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So im starting to hear this more.....

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Basically the last couple of women that i have hooked up with have at some point mentioned something along the lines of "so are you planning on disappearing next week".......mostly implying that after sex i probably wont talk to them anymore.

I feel like i dont give that vibe to them but for some reason most girls think im a player after meeting me.

Do some of you get lines like this every now and then and how do you respond to something like this?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That's their way of expressing their insecurity. If it is happening more and more, it means your game is running at a different level, and most women, not just the very insecure/low self esteem ones, will feel a little insecure.

That is their way of saying "Please don't just use me for sex, as I value you more and hope you see me more than just for one thing".
 
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Say something funny like... Yea I'm an alien sent to Earth to find out about mating patterns.......

Or if you want to see them again afterwards, you can invest by arranging another meeting or giving them a bracelet or something so they trust you.
 
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Tell them you're a secret agent and wil be going on a secret mission the next week. This will get a laugh out of them at first but when you do disappear it will make them think you really are a spy.
 
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it's a sign that you're starting to convince women that you're good with women. this is good.

i'd more or less flip it on them and say "depends on if you start stalking me or not" or "you can stay around as long as you don't get too obsessive", or whatever you want...

it doesn't really matter... it's a good thing that they're asking that...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Hey, I hadn't thought about that. Let me put it in my calendar."

*grab some note*

"Monday, disappear. Tuesday, disappear...Do you have an extra invisibility cloak?"
 
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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
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Hahahahaha! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
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ROTFLMAO!!!
 
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