"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So im starting to hear this more.....

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Basically the last couple of women that i have hooked up with have at some point mentioned something along the lines of "so are you planning on disappearing next week".......mostly implying that after sex i probably wont talk to them anymore.

I feel like i dont give that vibe to them but for some reason most girls think im a player after meeting me.

Do some of you get lines like this every now and then and how do you respond to something like this?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's their way of expressing their insecurity. If it is happening more and more, it means your game is running at a different level, and most women, not just the very insecure/low self esteem ones, will feel a little insecure.

That is their way of saying "Please don't just use me for sex, as I value you more and hope you see me more than just for one thing".
 
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Say something funny like... Yea I'm an alien sent to Earth to find out about mating patterns.......

Or if you want to see them again afterwards, you can invest by arranging another meeting or giving them a bracelet or something so they trust you.
 
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Tell them you're a secret agent and wil be going on a secret mission the next week. This will get a laugh out of them at first but when you do disappear it will make them think you really are a spy.
 
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it's a sign that you're starting to convince women that you're good with women. this is good.

i'd more or less flip it on them and say "depends on if you start stalking me or not" or "you can stay around as long as you don't get too obsessive", or whatever you want...

it doesn't really matter... it's a good thing that they're asking that...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Hey, I hadn't thought about that. Let me put it in my calendar."

*grab some note*

"Monday, disappear. Tuesday, disappear...Do you have an extra invisibility cloak?"
 
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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
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Hahahahaha! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Espi said:
I like to turn things around on her: "What? ME leave YOU??? If anything, you're gonna leave me for some middle-aged rich guy with a yacht and beergut!"
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ROTFLMAO!!!
 
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