“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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So, I went no-contact on her, and now she keeps contacting me...

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Ok, quick background story: I met a girl, and due to the timing of things, I asked her to prom within a few weeks of knowing her. HER IL was quite high, and things were great. Prom was fun...although she had to be home RIGHT after, so nothing much happened. Lots of cuddling at prom though.

However, soon after that she went cold (perhaps it was because her sister dislikes me? who knows). So, I got away from her. I was a senior, and skipped school a lot near the end, so it wasn't too hard :D

Now, about 1.5 months later, she keeps calling/texting. I haven't replied to much of anything, and I keep the conversations to about 3-4 min when I do speak to her. I keep it playful, and use lots of C&F, to which she has responded well.

My plan: Wait until sometime next week, call her up and take her out somewhere.

Do you guys have any experience with situations like this?

UPDATE: She called again!! The second time today. However, I was watching TV and didn't answer. haha...
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she's the one calling and contacting you, why mess it up? Wait to ask her when she calls you again. Don't go out of your way all of the sudden if it's working for you.
 
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Spot on mav. If her IL is very high, take advantage. You don't need to make a move if she's already making them. However, please make the move when you actually do meet up with her. It sounds like she wants it.
 
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Thanks guys. Although I can't help but being worried she won't call again :nervous: But, oh well :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ARrocket said:
Thanks guys. Although I can't help but being worried she won't call again :nervous: But, oh well :D
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I thought you said that she was calling and texting. If so, why would you be scared that she wouldn't call?
 
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ARrocket said:
Ok, quick background story: I met a girl, and due to the timing of things, I asked her to prom within a few weeks of knowing her. HER IL was quite high, and things were great. Prom was fun...although she had to be home RIGHT after, so nothing much happened. Lots of cuddling at prom though.

However, soon after that she went cold (perhaps it was because her sister dislikes me? who knows). So, I got away from her. I was a senior, and skipped school a lot near the end, so it wasn't too hard :D

Now, about 1.5 months later, she keeps calling/texting. I haven't replied to much of anything, and I keep the conversations to about 3-4 min when I do speak to her. I keep it playful, and use lots of C&F, to which she has responded well.

My plan: Wait until sometime next week, call her up and take her out somewhere.

Do you guys have any experience with situations like this?

UPDATE: She called again!! The second time today. However, I was watching TV and didn't answer. haha...
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Sounds like her IL is sky high right now. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Keep letting her do the calling, and casually suggest that she come over or that the two of you meet somewhere. After that, you know what to do!
 
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Mavrick said:
I thought you said that she was calling and texting. If so, why would you be scared that she wouldn't call?
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Yeah, but if I never reply to anything she might stop. She called last night and I haven't called back.
 
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Yeah, but if I never reply to anything she might stop. She called last night and I haven't called back.
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I didn't say not to reply. How could you have a conversation with someone if you don't reply. Just don't initiate contact if you haven't been doing it in the first place (like I said, why screw up a good thing?). It's ok not to reply or answer sometimes because it really just increases her interest and causes her to second guess herself. Then her ego will get the best of her, and she'll be knocking down your door. lol

If you always answer and you're always available, then she WILL lose interest in you. You've got her wanting to prove herself to her, and that's right where you want her.
 
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I didn't say not to reply. How could you have a conversation with someone if you don't reply. Just don't initiate contact if you haven't been doing it in the first place (like I said, why screw up a good thing?). It's ok not to reply or answer sometimes because it really just increases her interest and causes her to second guess herself. Then her ego will get the best of her, and she'll be knocking down your door. lol

If you always answer and you're always available, then she WILL lose interest in you. You've got her wanting to prove herself to her, and that's right where you want her.
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Yeah, I was thinking along the same lines. Thanks :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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