"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I was going to worry, then I said yeah right

Scought

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Well kids...pure and simple. I love to drink, its a part of my life, and I'm fun when I drink. I take care of my business first, then once or twice hit up the bars with some friends.

Problem is this: When I drink I love to call people, you know, drunk dialing. Yeah, so i did it last night to some girl im trying to see. We havent hung out that much, but wasted I decided to call her. Not sure what I said if I talked to her or the message, but you know what? I was going to get worried about oh man i called her, what did i say, she might think im weird.

Bottom line is you should booze and pimp, doesnt work unless its a one night thing, and you arent trying to make it a long term thing.

Anyway, I'm not going to fret, because if the girl thinks im weird or stupid when I'm drinking, then its not me problem really. If a girl trips over me getting drunk with some buddies, and I call her when im drunk, and she gets upset that would be her problem.

I mean, honestly, just out having a good time, with a good guy friend, and if me being drunk and havin fun, is something she didnt like, than oh well. Having a blast with my friend was just how it was.

So, I'll call to do laught it off, and if she has a problem, all i have to say is Cheers!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Knicknack

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if you are gettin so drunk that you can't remember if you talked to her or her voicemail, you have a problem. don't take alcohol abuse lightly.

you should learn to supress your urges to call people when drunk. it's tough but yo can do it.
 

RedKnight04

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You shouldn't make those phone calls like that. It will just end up making you say something stupid. Talk to that thing below your waist and tell it to chill cause your having a blast with your boys! :D
 

maranathaman

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Well kids...pure and simple. I love to drink.... BEER!
And unfortuantely, as a result, I now have a Big Fat Beer Belly!
Women claim that looks don't matter, but how often do you see a hot babe walking with a Fat dude? Very rare! When I didn't have this Belly, I used to get ALOT more tail! Now about the only chiks that'll give me the time of day are... you guessed it, Fat Chicks!! My problem is, I LOVE BEER! So don't be a fat Loser like me who can't get laid anymore! The above all might sound like a joke, but I'm dead serious.
 

Dirtheart

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That's great, but have you considered if you DID care, you would not make these calls, not risk annoying her and losing her respect, and not have blown any chance you had of getting her interest?

Just a thought.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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