"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I was going to worry, then I said yeah right

Scought

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Well kids...pure and simple. I love to drink, its a part of my life, and I'm fun when I drink. I take care of my business first, then once or twice hit up the bars with some friends.

Problem is this: When I drink I love to call people, you know, drunk dialing. Yeah, so i did it last night to some girl im trying to see. We havent hung out that much, but wasted I decided to call her. Not sure what I said if I talked to her or the message, but you know what? I was going to get worried about oh man i called her, what did i say, she might think im weird.

Bottom line is you should booze and pimp, doesnt work unless its a one night thing, and you arent trying to make it a long term thing.

Anyway, I'm not going to fret, because if the girl thinks im weird or stupid when I'm drinking, then its not me problem really. If a girl trips over me getting drunk with some buddies, and I call her when im drunk, and she gets upset that would be her problem.

I mean, honestly, just out having a good time, with a good guy friend, and if me being drunk and havin fun, is something she didnt like, than oh well. Having a blast with my friend was just how it was.

So, I'll call to do laught it off, and if she has a problem, all i have to say is Cheers!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Knicknack

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if you are gettin so drunk that you can't remember if you talked to her or her voicemail, you have a problem. don't take alcohol abuse lightly.

you should learn to supress your urges to call people when drunk. it's tough but yo can do it.
 

RedKnight04

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You shouldn't make those phone calls like that. It will just end up making you say something stupid. Talk to that thing below your waist and tell it to chill cause your having a blast with your boys! :D
 

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Well kids...pure and simple. I love to drink.... BEER!
And unfortuantely, as a result, I now have a Big Fat Beer Belly!
Women claim that looks don't matter, but how often do you see a hot babe walking with a Fat dude? Very rare! When I didn't have this Belly, I used to get ALOT more tail! Now about the only chiks that'll give me the time of day are... you guessed it, Fat Chicks!! My problem is, I LOVE BEER! So don't be a fat Loser like me who can't get laid anymore! The above all might sound like a joke, but I'm dead serious.
 

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That's great, but have you considered if you DID care, you would not make these calls, not risk annoying her and losing her respect, and not have blown any chance you had of getting her interest?

Just a thought.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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