"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I want to be a seducer

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SexPDX

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.
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Boy, who'd have ever thought the two of us would be hanging on good ole' sosuave on Christmas Eve. LOL! I am intoxicated and at the moment the only one awake in this vast opulent house. Lovely to be home for the holidays.

Anyway, the cell phone number I have for you no longer seems to work so you'll have to call me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by SexPDX
Anymore, however, I have so many things competing for my attention that I don't feel there is a great risk that I will resume a lifestyle of interminable online discussion of seduction combined with non-stop neurotic compulsive cold approaching of countless women practicing "advanced" seduction techniques of mind-bending complexity.
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Lol... :crackup:

I know... It's a screwed up world I live in.
 
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48 Laws of Power deals with how you can manipulate and overpower the other people(s) after getting them to let their guard down doesn't it?

I personally don't think that book comes in handy when it comes to the relationship world. To tell you the truth, that may come in handy for a short amount of time, but once it gets tedious and old, you'd probably realize it was a waste of time.

You're limiting yourself so much bro; don't just aim for sex and only sex...I'd say sex is just a part of a bigger picture in relationships. Why not aim higher and broader instead of being blinded by the whole overrated category of sex?
 
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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.
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Just thought I'd check in and...
SexPDX! Cardinali! It's a freakin' reunion!
Happy New Year!:cheer:
All the Best,
DB
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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