"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SexPDX

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.
Boy, who'd have ever thought the two of us would be hanging on good ole' sosuave on Christmas Eve. LOL! I am intoxicated and at the moment the only one awake in this vast opulent house. Lovely to be home for the holidays.

Anyway, the cell phone number I have for you no longer seems to work so you'll have to call me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by SexPDX
Anymore, however, I have so many things competing for my attention that I don't feel there is a great risk that I will resume a lifestyle of interminable online discussion of seduction combined with non-stop neurotic compulsive cold approaching of countless women practicing "advanced" seduction techniques of mind-bending complexity.
Lol... :crackup:

I know... It's a screwed up world I live in.
 

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48 Laws of Power deals with how you can manipulate and overpower the other people(s) after getting them to let their guard down doesn't it?

I personally don't think that book comes in handy when it comes to the relationship world. To tell you the truth, that may come in handy for a short amount of time, but once it gets tedious and old, you'd probably realize it was a waste of time.

You're limiting yourself so much bro; don't just aim for sex and only sex...I'd say sex is just a part of a bigger picture in relationships. Why not aim higher and broader instead of being blinded by the whole overrated category of sex?
 

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.

Just thought I'd check in and...
SexPDX! Cardinali! It's a freakin' reunion!
Happy New Year!:cheer:
All the Best,
DB
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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