"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I want to be a seducer

SexPDX

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.
Boy, who'd have ever thought the two of us would be hanging on good ole' sosuave on Christmas Eve. LOL! I am intoxicated and at the moment the only one awake in this vast opulent house. Lovely to be home for the holidays.

Anyway, the cell phone number I have for you no longer seems to work so you'll have to call me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by SexPDX
Anymore, however, I have so many things competing for my attention that I don't feel there is a great risk that I will resume a lifestyle of interminable online discussion of seduction combined with non-stop neurotic compulsive cold approaching of countless women practicing "advanced" seduction techniques of mind-bending complexity.
Lol... :crackup:

I know... It's a screwed up world I live in.
 

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48 Laws of Power deals with how you can manipulate and overpower the other people(s) after getting them to let their guard down doesn't it?

I personally don't think that book comes in handy when it comes to the relationship world. To tell you the truth, that may come in handy for a short amount of time, but once it gets tedious and old, you'd probably realize it was a waste of time.

You're limiting yourself so much bro; don't just aim for sex and only sex...I'd say sex is just a part of a bigger picture in relationships. Why not aim higher and broader instead of being blinded by the whole overrated category of sex?
 

DeepBlue

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Originally posted by Cesare Cardinali
Bro, it's called "Sarging". Have you forgotten the all the lingo and the secret handshake so soon?:)

Good to see you still around. We should talk soon.

Happy Holidays.

Just thought I'd check in and...
SexPDX! Cardinali! It's a freakin' reunion!
Happy New Year!:cheer:
All the Best,
DB
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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