"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I see 2 cute girls, what do i do?

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Hello gurus,

Just about 15 minutes ago, I was walking up the street and I saw 2 cute girls who are probably between 19-21 years old. I was was very attracted to both of them and wanted to ask them if they wanted to blaze, and they seemed like the party types. However I was wearing plain shorts and a stripped yellow dorky t shirt, so i dunno if they would be attracted to me in the first place. As the shy guy I am, I just walked by...

Should I have asked them to smoke a joint with me? Or is there another way to introduce myself without looking like a creepo?:crackup: Next time I will DEFINETELY do something.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would never go up to a random stranger and be like you want to blaze thats retarded lol. You will look dumb as hell especially if they don't smoke. Just say hi to them with a smile and how they are doing usually works.
 
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smoking a joint together is a nice idea ;)
 
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Dude... never offer a girl you barely know to get high with you. Its horrible for your image, even if she is also a pot head. Dont create a meet up that revolves around the idea of getting high together.
There's no magic line or story that we can tell you which you can use if this were to happen tomorrow. You must have already been prepared, you must already have the confidence to walk up to a stranger and open a convo. This is why a lot of us go out sarging. To be prepared so that when we see that beautiful girl walk by, we'll have the confidence to say something.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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