"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I see 2 cute girls, what do i do?

odjn

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Hello gurus,

Just about 15 minutes ago, I was walking up the street and I saw 2 cute girls who are probably between 19-21 years old. I was was very attracted to both of them and wanted to ask them if they wanted to blaze, and they seemed like the party types. However I was wearing plain shorts and a stripped yellow dorky t shirt, so i dunno if they would be attracted to me in the first place. As the shy guy I am, I just walked by...

Should I have asked them to smoke a joint with me? Or is there another way to introduce myself without looking like a creepo?:crackup: Next time I will DEFINETELY do something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Sperminator

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I would never go up to a random stranger and be like you want to blaze thats retarded lol. You will look dumb as hell especially if they don't smoke. Just say hi to them with a smile and how they are doing usually works.
 

Acq

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smoking a joint together is a nice idea ;)
 

r0cky

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Dude... never offer a girl you barely know to get high with you. Its horrible for your image, even if she is also a pot head. Dont create a meet up that revolves around the idea of getting high together.
There's no magic line or story that we can tell you which you can use if this were to happen tomorrow. You must have already been prepared, you must already have the confidence to walk up to a stranger and open a convo. This is why a lot of us go out sarging. To be prepared so that when we see that beautiful girl walk by, we'll have the confidence to say something.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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