"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I see 2 cute girls, what do i do?

odjn

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Hello gurus,

Just about 15 minutes ago, I was walking up the street and I saw 2 cute girls who are probably between 19-21 years old. I was was very attracted to both of them and wanted to ask them if they wanted to blaze, and they seemed like the party types. However I was wearing plain shorts and a stripped yellow dorky t shirt, so i dunno if they would be attracted to me in the first place. As the shy guy I am, I just walked by...

Should I have asked them to smoke a joint with me? Or is there another way to introduce myself without looking like a creepo?:crackup: Next time I will DEFINETELY do something.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Sperminator

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I would never go up to a random stranger and be like you want to blaze thats retarded lol. You will look dumb as hell especially if they don't smoke. Just say hi to them with a smile and how they are doing usually works.
 

Acq

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smoking a joint together is a nice idea ;)
 

r0cky

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Dude... never offer a girl you barely know to get high with you. Its horrible for your image, even if she is also a pot head. Dont create a meet up that revolves around the idea of getting high together.
There's no magic line or story that we can tell you which you can use if this were to happen tomorrow. You must have already been prepared, you must already have the confidence to walk up to a stranger and open a convo. This is why a lot of us go out sarging. To be prepared so that when we see that beautiful girl walk by, we'll have the confidence to say something.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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