So I just moved to a new city a couple months...I don't know anyone except people from work and a girl I met weeks ago. I didn't make a move on her so of course I fell into the friends zone. We got along great so I didn't want to next her. Anyway, a couple nights ago we got wasted at a party and decided to head back to my place for a bite to eat and yada yada...we are making out on the couch. For the record, she initiated the kiss but I tried to escalate it. Her anti-slut defense kicks in...I counter a couple of her **** tests until she finally throws her top back on and leaves. So I still want to be friends with her. I'm thinking she'd make a great wing or social proof (maybe she'll try jumping my bones again?). How do I salvage the friendship?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
so I made out with a lady friend...
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