So I just moved to a new city a couple months...I don't know anyone except people from work and a girl I met weeks ago. I didn't make a move on her so of course I fell into the friends zone. We got along great so I didn't want to next her. Anyway, a couple nights ago we got wasted at a party and decided to head back to my place for a bite to eat and yada yada...we are making out on the couch. For the record, she initiated the kiss but I tried to escalate it. Her anti-slut defense kicks in...I counter a couple of her **** tests until she finally throws her top back on and leaves. So I still want to be friends with her. I'm thinking she'd make a great wing or social proof (maybe she'll try jumping my bones again?). How do I salvage the friendship?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
so I made out with a lady friend...
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