So I just moved to a new city a couple months...I don't know anyone except people from work and a girl I met weeks ago. I didn't make a move on her so of course I fell into the friends zone. We got along great so I didn't want to next her. Anyway, a couple nights ago we got wasted at a party and decided to head back to my place for a bite to eat and yada yada...we are making out on the couch. For the record, she initiated the kiss but I tried to escalate it. Her anti-slut defense kicks in...I counter a couple of her **** tests until she finally throws her top back on and leaves. So I still want to be friends with her. I'm thinking she'd make a great wing or social proof (maybe she'll try jumping my bones again?). How do I salvage the friendship?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
so I made out with a lady friend...
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