So I just moved to a new city a couple months...I don't know anyone except people from work and a girl I met weeks ago. I didn't make a move on her so of course I fell into the friends zone. We got along great so I didn't want to next her. Anyway, a couple nights ago we got wasted at a party and decided to head back to my place for a bite to eat and yada yada...we are making out on the couch. For the record, she initiated the kiss but I tried to escalate it. Her anti-slut defense kicks in...I counter a couple of her **** tests until she finally throws her top back on and leaves. So I still want to be friends with her. I'm thinking she'd make a great wing or social proof (maybe she'll try jumping my bones again?). How do I salvage the friendship?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
so I made out with a lady friend...
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