Dante420
Master Don Juan
Now that my social proof is gone, I have no friends to bring people around with. I'll prolly sound desperate anytime people wanna make plans, what to do now?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So I Lost My Friends, How Am I Suppose to DJ Now?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
uhhh How did you manage to do that?
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Tyson420 said:uhhh How did you manage to do that?
Me and my best friend kinda lead our clique, we don't normally hang out with the rest so it was normally just me and him chillin with the girls and we'd meet up with the others for blazing and other stuff we did, but he had more rapport with them.
Me and him ended up not friends and as a result me and the rest aren't friends, so now I am going to have to work on building a new circle before I move across the country a few months from now.
Since your moving anyway... concentrate on getting in the gym, getting some new clothes and getting some money in your pocket. Worry about a new social circle when you get there. Make this a mission and stay committed.
Dante420
Master Don Juan
Thank you sirWarrior74 said:Since your moving anyway... concentrate on getting in the gym, getting some new clothes and getting some money in your pocket. Worry about a new social circle when you get there. Make this a mission and stay committed.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
moneyisking
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same thing happened, although i didn't un-friend my friend, he simply had to drop out from one semester to get some unfinished business done, but he's coming back next sem, so we gona blast the f-ck out of this city.
BTW, about your situation, I kind of had to make new friends again after my friend left for a while, b/c i really never hung out with others than him and his buddies and some of my buddies, but it was mostly me and him. I learned a lot thanks to his absence. Mainly don't get bogged down making friends. Just be cool, a man, and have fun. Don't be a serious dumb azz. Then they will mostly think you're cool. One big thing I learned is that you must act, not react. Meaning go say hello to him and her first in parties. It's simple as "hey I don't think I got to know you, whats your name?". and then just be HAPPY and FUN you. I learned a lot from absence of my friend, and now, I have a lot of friends, find parties somehow, and get to know more friends. Hope you do well too
BTW, about your situation, I kind of had to make new friends again after my friend left for a while, b/c i really never hung out with others than him and his buddies and some of my buddies, but it was mostly me and him. I learned a lot thanks to his absence. Mainly don't get bogged down making friends. Just be cool, a man, and have fun. Don't be a serious dumb azz. Then they will mostly think you're cool. One big thing I learned is that you must act, not react. Meaning go say hello to him and her first in parties. It's simple as "hey I don't think I got to know you, whats your name?". and then just be HAPPY and FUN you. I learned a lot from absence of my friend, and now, I have a lot of friends, find parties somehow, and get to know more friends. Hope you do well too
sageproduct
Banned
Kinda similar situation for me, but I'm losing my friends by choice...they're AFC, mostly douches, and the girls in the group are ugly prude btiches, except for one who is hot and whips all my guy friends...annoying as fck. Kinda hard to just jump into another group tho.
I usually don't like this guy but his advice here is golden. There's a saying; The best friend you can have is money. Get some money saved up. Buy some nice things. Go get in the gym. People will talk to you and you will be okay. People are drawn to strength, not weakness.Warrior74 said:Since your moving anyway... concentrate on getting in the gym, getting some new clothes and getting some money in your pocket. Worry about a new social circle when you get there. Make this a mission and stay committed.