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...But I think I'm a little out of her league. This girl is about an HB-5/6 but I've dated HB-8/9 before. The thing is, this girl is awesome. Shes really really cool and we hangout all the time and shes just great. But i know i could do a lot better myself hot wise. And I'd really like to date her because she likes me too but I'm kind of embarrassed. I don't to get made fun of =\. Any advice?
 

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don't you mean, you're a little out of her league?

dude... HB 5/6 isn't a HB!!

if you can do better, do better.

or, just hookup with her and dont date her.
 

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yeah i switched the "leagues". but dude this girl is my best friend. i just dont know =\
 

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dont hook up with her. you say shes awesome and its alright to be just friends with a girl. once you hook up with her, everything will change.
 

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dont hook up with her. you say shes awesome and its alright to be just friends with a girl. once you hook up with her, everything will change.
 

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zubs said:
dont hook up with her. you say shes awesome and its alright to be just friends with a girl. once you hook up with her, everything will change.
In this context, this is good advice.

But take it how you will my friend, Johnny Soporno made a good thread about how to turn friend girls into girlfriends recently.
 

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If you like her, you like her. If you are embarrassed by her, then you need to work on yourself....
 

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wtf ?

Trust me i would date a great girl (hb5-6) that i have fun with her more than some snob 8's and 9's .

I would recomand to date her and have fun with her. As redspicyflag said Who the fvck cares what everybody says . There is gonna be always someone that is gonna try to destroy your happiness . If we pay attention to them we gonna fail in life . Fvck them , do whatever u want .

( ive dated some really hot girls but now i realized that they dont worth any minute of my time )
 

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This comes back to not caring what anyone thinks.

This is a big problem for me too, because there are certain 5-6s who for some reason I want to fuk just as bad as the my typical 9s. I'm so used to talking to 8s and up that I really never tried fuking those 5-6s.

But what I've done now is I dropped the whole rating system. It's either I would or wouldn't fuk her. Honestly who cares what people think about you, at the end of the day your fuking her.

Also if her personality is cool, and you don't even want to fuk her then just befriend her. For me there are certain 5s and 6s that I want to fuk silly because there is something about them that makes me want to.
 

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thanks everyone for their reply. Thing is, I know i shouldn't give a **** what other people think but i just do for some fvcking reason i just dont want to. but this girl has also been my best friend since we were 5 years old so i dont know how it would change if we dated.
 

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what does a 5 look like? isnt anything below HB7 called UG (for ugly girls)..

you're saying you know her since you're 5yr old?? Well, if you are willing to go out with her, you can say goodbye to that friendship because it won't be the same after you too break up (which will eventualy happen)..

so you gotta make the choice between: keeping a friendship with a UG you've known for a lot of years, a friendship that seems to count for you...OR..trying to hook up with this girl who you think is below your standards, which will eventualy destroy your friendship...think about it.
 

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blink-182 said:
thanks everyone for their reply. Thing is, I know i shouldn't give a **** what other people think but i just do for some fvcking reason i just dont want to. but this girl has also been my best friend since we were 5 years old so i dont know how it would change if we dated.
Dawg if she's your best friend, KNOW that if you try and date her, you run a high risk of losing this best friendedness you guys got going on.

Then again, your best friend *should* be a guy. I see it as you need a dude who you can talk to about guy stuff without worrying about ****. I guess you can do that with girls but its not the same at all.
 

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You know.. In my high school days I dated quite a few HB 8's and 9's. Then, like you; I ran into a girl who is not bad looking and she is cool. So, I dated her to see how things ended up. She turned out to be the best girlfriend I ever had! Sure, she wasn't the hottest and I knew I could of done better. But, it's all about what makes you happy. Even friends can become lovers too.
 

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I Am Sam said:
Dawg if she's your best friend, KNOW that if you try and date her, you run a high risk of losing this best friendedness you guys got going on.

Then again, your best friend *should* be a guy. I see it as you need a dude who you can talk to about guy stuff without worrying about ****. I guess you can do that with girls but its not the same at all.
dude shes not like my one best friend. i have like 4. and i do have guy best friends to talk about all my shti with them. but yeah i'm thinkin not date her because i dont want to lose what we have now. thanks everyone
 

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if shes your best friend and you date her,
eventually youre gonna be listening to the AVA song "it hurts"

your best friend is not your girlfriend.
:cry:
 

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holy fvckin **** dude angels and airwaves is my favorite band aside from blink-182. it hurts is a great song and was thinkin about this situation as i listened. lol thanks everyone
 
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