...But I think I'm a little out of her league. This girl is about an HB-5/6 but I've dated HB-8/9 before. The thing is, this girl is awesome. Shes really really cool and we hangout all the time and shes just great. But i know i could do a lot better myself hot wise. And I'd really like to date her because she likes me too but I'm kind of embarrassed. I don't to get made fun of =\. Any advice?
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So I like this girl...
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
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redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Dude
Do whatever makes you happy
Who cares what anyone thinks
Do whatever makes you happy
Who cares what anyone thinks
zubs
Don Juan
dont hook up with her. you say shes awesome and its alright to be just friends with a girl. once you hook up with her, everything will change.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
zubs
Don Juan
dont hook up with her. you say shes awesome and its alright to be just friends with a girl. once you hook up with her, everything will change.
LostAndConfused
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In this context, this is good advice.zubs said:
But take it how you will my friend, Johnny Soporno made a good thread about how to turn friend girls into girlfriends recently.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
If you like her, you like her. If you are embarrassed by her, then you need to work on yourself....
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
wtf ?
Trust me i would date a great girl (hb5-6) that i have fun with her more than some snob 8's and 9's .
I would recomand to date her and have fun with her. As redspicyflag said Who the fvck cares what everybody says . There is gonna be always someone that is gonna try to destroy your happiness . If we pay attention to them we gonna fail in life . Fvck them , do whatever u want .
( ive dated some really hot girls but now i realized that they dont worth any minute of my time )
Trust me i would date a great girl (hb5-6) that i have fun with her more than some snob 8's and 9's .
I would recomand to date her and have fun with her. As redspicyflag said Who the fvck cares what everybody says . There is gonna be always someone that is gonna try to destroy your happiness . If we pay attention to them we gonna fail in life . Fvck them , do whatever u want .
( ive dated some really hot girls but now i realized that they dont worth any minute of my time )
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
This comes back to not caring what anyone thinks.
This is a big problem for me too, because there are certain 5-6s who for some reason I want to fuk just as bad as the my typical 9s. I'm so used to talking to 8s and up that I really never tried fuking those 5-6s.
But what I've done now is I dropped the whole rating system. It's either I would or wouldn't fuk her. Honestly who cares what people think about you, at the end of the day your fuking her.
Also if her personality is cool, and you don't even want to fuk her then just befriend her. For me there are certain 5s and 6s that I want to fuk silly because there is something about them that makes me want to.
This is a big problem for me too, because there are certain 5-6s who for some reason I want to fuk just as bad as the my typical 9s. I'm so used to talking to 8s and up that I really never tried fuking those 5-6s.
But what I've done now is I dropped the whole rating system. It's either I would or wouldn't fuk her. Honestly who cares what people think about you, at the end of the day your fuking her.
Also if her personality is cool, and you don't even want to fuk her then just befriend her. For me there are certain 5s and 6s that I want to fuk silly because there is something about them that makes me want to.
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thanks everyone for their reply. Thing is, I know i shouldn't give a **** what other people think but i just do for some fvcking reason i just dont want to. but this girl has also been my best friend since we were 5 years old so i dont know how it would change if we dated.
1life
Don Juan
what does a 5 look like? isnt anything below HB7 called UG (for ugly girls)..
you're saying you know her since you're 5yr old?? Well, if you are willing to go out with her, you can say goodbye to that friendship because it won't be the same after you too break up (which will eventualy happen)..
so you gotta make the choice between: keeping a friendship with a UG you've known for a lot of years, a friendship that seems to count for you...OR..trying to hook up with this girl who you think is below your standards, which will eventualy destroy your friendship...think about it.
you're saying you know her since you're 5yr old?? Well, if you are willing to go out with her, you can say goodbye to that friendship because it won't be the same after you too break up (which will eventualy happen)..
so you gotta make the choice between: keeping a friendship with a UG you've known for a lot of years, a friendship that seems to count for you...OR..trying to hook up with this girl who you think is below your standards, which will eventualy destroy your friendship...think about it.
Dawg if she's your best friend, KNOW that if you try and date her, you run a high risk of losing this best friendedness you guys got going on.blink-182 said:
Then again, your best friend *should* be a guy. I see it as you need a dude who you can talk to about guy stuff without worrying about ****. I guess you can do that with girls but its not the same at all.
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relationships ruin friendships, the end. 
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
You know.. In my high school days I dated quite a few HB 8's and 9's. Then, like you; I ran into a girl who is not bad looking and she is cool. So, I dated her to see how things ended up. She turned out to be the best girlfriend I ever had! Sure, she wasn't the hottest and I knew I could of done better. But, it's all about what makes you happy. Even friends can become lovers too.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dude shes not like my one best friend. i have like 4. and i do have guy best friends to talk about all my shti with them. but yeah i'm thinkin not date her because i dont want to lose what we have now. thanks everyoneI Am Sam said:
PuroDeAgave
Don Juan
if shes your best friend and you date her,
eventually youre gonna be listening to the AVA song "it hurts"
your best friend is not your girlfriend.
eventually youre gonna be listening to the AVA song "it hurts"
your best friend is not your girlfriend.