"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I haven't been around much....

Warrior74

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...because I lost my job. And I gotta say, while my prospects for finding another one in my field at my current pay in my current area are dim, I've never felt better. I didn't realize how much I hated that place until I was free of it. Now I am going to have to scramble. I have some savings and some money coming that should get me through the next 3-4 months, I've paid off all of my debts except for my car and student loans, and my side business has been picking up tremendously. I also landed a part time job with a friend at his business. I'm kinda scared but it feels good too, I really hated that place. The constant worry over getting fired and the nonexistent raises and advancements got old after 6 years. Not to mention the clueless, overbearing, preeening and corrupt management.

How does this relate to women? Well for one...everyone has been talking about how happy I seem. I've had a swagger in my step knowing that I'm moving on. I was at the bank sorting out somethings on my business account and got a date with the chic who was helping me. This after I tell her I just lost my job and she can see I have 200 bucks in my business account. Why? Because I'm hungry, I'm feeling ambitious again, and I think people can sense that. I know things are going to work out. I have plans B. C.and D. lined up. None of them are terrible, just slightly uncomfortable.

Anyway, see you guys around. I gotta get a lot done in the next two months.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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backbreaker

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sometimes **** like that is exactly what you need to finally have the light switch go on so to speak. best of luck man. you will be fine.
 

women haze

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Good Luck to you man I need that swift kick in the ass to get me in gear...

You will be fine stay hungry
 

Solomon

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I wish I had that mentality when I first lost my job, it would have saved me through the depression and lack of motivation, great post!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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