"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So I haven't been around much....

Warrior74

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...because I lost my job. And I gotta say, while my prospects for finding another one in my field at my current pay in my current area are dim, I've never felt better. I didn't realize how much I hated that place until I was free of it. Now I am going to have to scramble. I have some savings and some money coming that should get me through the next 3-4 months, I've paid off all of my debts except for my car and student loans, and my side business has been picking up tremendously. I also landed a part time job with a friend at his business. I'm kinda scared but it feels good too, I really hated that place. The constant worry over getting fired and the nonexistent raises and advancements got old after 6 years. Not to mention the clueless, overbearing, preeening and corrupt management.

How does this relate to women? Well for one...everyone has been talking about how happy I seem. I've had a swagger in my step knowing that I'm moving on. I was at the bank sorting out somethings on my business account and got a date with the chic who was helping me. This after I tell her I just lost my job and she can see I have 200 bucks in my business account. Why? Because I'm hungry, I'm feeling ambitious again, and I think people can sense that. I know things are going to work out. I have plans B. C.and D. lined up. None of them are terrible, just slightly uncomfortable.

Anyway, see you guys around. I gotta get a lot done in the next two months.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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sometimes **** like that is exactly what you need to finally have the light switch go on so to speak. best of luck man. you will be fine.
 

women haze

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Good Luck to you man I need that swift kick in the ass to get me in gear...

You will be fine stay hungry
 

Solomon

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I wish I had that mentality when I first lost my job, it would have saved me through the depression and lack of motivation, great post!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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