Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I Got This Call From An Unavailable Number. . . .

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It was a girl and she said "Hey, what's up?" and a nice voice. She said that she thinks that I'm wicked hot and she saw my pics on Myspace and she thinks I'm really hot. I laughed and said "I actually get that a lot, what's up?"

This happened when I was sitting in a closet with 4 dudes blazing 1 blunt and 4 joints. I was like "I'm in the middle of a session right now so you wanna call me back later" and she said "Ya we should smoke some time" and I was like "Ya you gonna smoke me up?" and then something happened and the call ended.

How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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KontrollerX

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Well it could always be a prank or a setup.

If she calls again just arrange to meet at a place you deem safe.

She may of used a phone card which explains the unavailable number.
 
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This could be a set-up. One of my friends exs really messed her head up, treated her like crap and knocked her confidence so bad it took her years to get over it. So last year, I started calling him from a private number, stargted chatting him up, this went on for about a month. He wanted to see a pic, so i e mailed him one i found on google. He really thought we were going to meet up to get down to business. We set up the date and then his ex turned up instead of me and they talked it out. I told her how to handle the situation and by the time they were done he had seen the errors of his ways and apologised to her.

I would approach the situation with caution and tell her if she wants to speak to you, she has to leave her number.
 
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Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
 
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pooparu said:
Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
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^I like this guy :rockon:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I saw a tv program where they make jokes like this and then laught at the men.
Just an other example of "good television".
 
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in london that would be a definet set up robbery.

oh im just going to the toilet next thing theres people in your house

is your number on your myspace?
 
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Don't give in so easily to her interest. But yeah, be cool and let her work, and don't give out any personal info.
 
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Dante420 said:
How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
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The first thing I'd do is take my phone number off a public myspace account.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is your phone number REALLY on your myspace page??????
 
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