"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I Got This Call From An Unavailable Number. . . .

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It was a girl and she said "Hey, what's up?" and a nice voice. She said that she thinks that I'm wicked hot and she saw my pics on Myspace and she thinks I'm really hot. I laughed and said "I actually get that a lot, what's up?"

This happened when I was sitting in a closet with 4 dudes blazing 1 blunt and 4 joints. I was like "I'm in the middle of a session right now so you wanna call me back later" and she said "Ya we should smoke some time" and I was like "Ya you gonna smoke me up?" and then something happened and the call ended.

How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well it could always be a prank or a setup.

If she calls again just arrange to meet at a place you deem safe.

She may of used a phone card which explains the unavailable number.
 
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This could be a set-up. One of my friends exs really messed her head up, treated her like crap and knocked her confidence so bad it took her years to get over it. So last year, I started calling him from a private number, stargted chatting him up, this went on for about a month. He wanted to see a pic, so i e mailed him one i found on google. He really thought we were going to meet up to get down to business. We set up the date and then his ex turned up instead of me and they talked it out. I told her how to handle the situation and by the time they were done he had seen the errors of his ways and apologised to her.

I would approach the situation with caution and tell her if she wants to speak to you, she has to leave her number.
 
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Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
 
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pooparu said:
Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
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^I like this guy :rockon:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I saw a tv program where they make jokes like this and then laught at the men.
Just an other example of "good television".
 
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in london that would be a definet set up robbery.

oh im just going to the toilet next thing theres people in your house

is your number on your myspace?
 
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Don't give in so easily to her interest. But yeah, be cool and let her work, and don't give out any personal info.
 
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Dante420 said:
How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
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The first thing I'd do is take my phone number off a public myspace account.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is your phone number REALLY on your myspace page??????
 
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