"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I Got This Call From An Unavailable Number. . . .

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It was a girl and she said "Hey, what's up?" and a nice voice. She said that she thinks that I'm wicked hot and she saw my pics on Myspace and she thinks I'm really hot. I laughed and said "I actually get that a lot, what's up?"

This happened when I was sitting in a closet with 4 dudes blazing 1 blunt and 4 joints. I was like "I'm in the middle of a session right now so you wanna call me back later" and she said "Ya we should smoke some time" and I was like "Ya you gonna smoke me up?" and then something happened and the call ended.

How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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Well it could always be a prank or a setup.

If she calls again just arrange to meet at a place you deem safe.

She may of used a phone card which explains the unavailable number.
 
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This could be a set-up. One of my friends exs really messed her head up, treated her like crap and knocked her confidence so bad it took her years to get over it. So last year, I started calling him from a private number, stargted chatting him up, this went on for about a month. He wanted to see a pic, so i e mailed him one i found on google. He really thought we were going to meet up to get down to business. We set up the date and then his ex turned up instead of me and they talked it out. I told her how to handle the situation and by the time they were done he had seen the errors of his ways and apologised to her.

I would approach the situation with caution and tell her if she wants to speak to you, she has to leave her number.
 
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Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
 
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pooparu said:
Be certain that's not an undercover guy if you push, otherwise, what's the worst that can happen? Free smoke out from an ugly girl? Or a free smoke out and lay from a HB if things are as they sound.

Either way there's free weed involved as long as its not a cop so do it.
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^I like this guy :rockon:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I saw a tv program where they make jokes like this and then laught at the men.
Just an other example of "good television".
 
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in london that would be a definet set up robbery.

oh im just going to the toilet next thing theres people in your house

is your number on your myspace?
 
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Don't give in so easily to her interest. But yeah, be cool and let her work, and don't give out any personal info.
 
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Dante420 said:
How should I play this? Is this even safe? I don't know this girl
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The first thing I'd do is take my phone number off a public myspace account.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is your phone number REALLY on your myspace page??????
 
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