"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I got friend zoned..

Le killeur

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Basically she said she didn't want to hurt herself or me and it'd be too messy, this was after I sort of flipped out in a club and told her to leave me alone, then after an hour of pestering me I told her it was because I liked her.

However, I genuinely couldn't give a f@vk, be nice to bang her, you guys suggest total no contact? I knew I was breaking the rules and I knew she'd pull the your one of my best friends card. Guess I sort of wanted it to happen, I'll use this as field practice for NC :)

Women ey!:crazy:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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playa99

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I would leave contact all together now my man,

If you do like her, it is better for you and her, time away may make her realise if she does like you or not.

If she does see you as just a friend no matter what, then its better for you to be out of there looking for new women who are interested than just being a mate to her!
 

Le killeur

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Cheers playa, im also a fellow mancunian :up:

NC seems the best call, for the reasons you stated, Very good learning experience, now to go out and get fk1n LAID my friend!
 

playa99

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Decent!! Been their got the T SHIRT many times, you got the right idea!!
 
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