"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I got friend zoned..

Le killeur

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Basically she said she didn't want to hurt herself or me and it'd be too messy, this was after I sort of flipped out in a club and told her to leave me alone, then after an hour of pestering me I told her it was because I liked her.

However, I genuinely couldn't give a f@vk, be nice to bang her, you guys suggest total no contact? I knew I was breaking the rules and I knew she'd pull the your one of my best friends card. Guess I sort of wanted it to happen, I'll use this as field practice for NC :)

Women ey!:crazy:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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playa99

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I would leave contact all together now my man,

If you do like her, it is better for you and her, time away may make her realise if she does like you or not.

If she does see you as just a friend no matter what, then its better for you to be out of there looking for new women who are interested than just being a mate to her!
 

Le killeur

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Cheers playa, im also a fellow mancunian :up:

NC seems the best call, for the reasons you stated, Very good learning experience, now to go out and get fk1n LAID my friend!
 

playa99

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Decent!! Been their got the T SHIRT many times, you got the right idea!!
 
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