Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I got friend zoned..

Le killeur

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Basically she said she didn't want to hurt herself or me and it'd be too messy, this was after I sort of flipped out in a club and told her to leave me alone, then after an hour of pestering me I told her it was because I liked her.

However, I genuinely couldn't give a f@vk, be nice to bang her, you guys suggest total no contact? I knew I was breaking the rules and I knew she'd pull the your one of my best friends card. Guess I sort of wanted it to happen, I'll use this as field practice for NC :)

Women ey!:crazy:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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playa99

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I would leave contact all together now my man,

If you do like her, it is better for you and her, time away may make her realise if she does like you or not.

If she does see you as just a friend no matter what, then its better for you to be out of there looking for new women who are interested than just being a mate to her!
 

Le killeur

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Cheers playa, im also a fellow mancunian :up:

NC seems the best call, for the reasons you stated, Very good learning experience, now to go out and get fk1n LAID my friend!
 

playa99

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Decent!! Been their got the T SHIRT many times, you got the right idea!!
 
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