"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So I got friend zoned..

Le killeur

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Basically she said she didn't want to hurt herself or me and it'd be too messy, this was after I sort of flipped out in a club and told her to leave me alone, then after an hour of pestering me I told her it was because I liked her.

However, I genuinely couldn't give a f@vk, be nice to bang her, you guys suggest total no contact? I knew I was breaking the rules and I knew she'd pull the your one of my best friends card. Guess I sort of wanted it to happen, I'll use this as field practice for NC :)

Women ey!:crazy:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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playa99

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I would leave contact all together now my man,

If you do like her, it is better for you and her, time away may make her realise if she does like you or not.

If she does see you as just a friend no matter what, then its better for you to be out of there looking for new women who are interested than just being a mate to her!
 

Le killeur

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Cheers playa, im also a fellow mancunian :up:

NC seems the best call, for the reasons you stated, Very good learning experience, now to go out and get fk1n LAID my friend!
 

playa99

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Decent!! Been their got the T SHIRT many times, you got the right idea!!
 
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