"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ouch. So yeah, my pride is sinful and will be the end of me. Actually, I was planning on rubbing it in everyones face by just ignoring them and having the time of my life. Thats what Ive been doing since I transfered here - its obviously worked pretty well, since they all hate me =)

I am not an AFC nor a player. I dont agree about "giving notice." Its a formal dance. I know that if Brooke Burke asked me to a black tie event in LA tomorrow - I would have to decline. Not because I wouldnt want to (DUH!) but because its a simple impossibility. Ill stick to the three weeks minimum as mentioned prior.

I dont intend to rush her to bed - I can pick up horny 30 y/os at bars for that. I think she'll definatly enjoy the time alone with me, however. Personally, Ive always wanted to take a date to Niagara Falls (about 30 min from my house).

By the way - bragging isnt unattractive. Saying, "Im the richest person here" is unattractive. But telling a story about a trip through europe is incredibly interesting. Know the difference.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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to brag is to boast about something in an arrogant way so it is very unattractive, telling someone about a trip to europe is not boasting...unless you state it arrogantly. the definition of bragging is an unattractive one. Your spin on it makes it not boasting but rather telling a story.
 
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Sorry no. Bragging is any deliberate, yet unessesary display of success/talent. A story about a trip through europe is just a tasteful kind of bragging. Duh.
 
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Its a stupid phrase, sorry. Kino roots from kinesthetics - the physical. Eyecontact and tonality are completely unrelated. The terms are sensual eyecontact and tonality. Simple.
 
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i think your definition is for boasting not bragging. And to a tell a story about eurpoe is not bragging at all, in any sense of the word.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Kino roots from kinesthetics - the physical.
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Yeah I agree with Tony. Its a contradictory name- Kino is in no way "mental", so how can you call it "mental Kino"?
 
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