"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So I found a prom date...

TonyTheTigerOI

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Ouch. So yeah, my pride is sinful and will be the end of me. Actually, I was planning on rubbing it in everyones face by just ignoring them and having the time of my life. Thats what Ive been doing since I transfered here - its obviously worked pretty well, since they all hate me =)

I am not an AFC nor a player. I dont agree about "giving notice." Its a formal dance. I know that if Brooke Burke asked me to a black tie event in LA tomorrow - I would have to decline. Not because I wouldnt want to (DUH!) but because its a simple impossibility. Ill stick to the three weeks minimum as mentioned prior.

I dont intend to rush her to bed - I can pick up horny 30 y/os at bars for that. I think she'll definatly enjoy the time alone with me, however. Personally, Ive always wanted to take a date to Niagara Falls (about 30 min from my house).

By the way - bragging isnt unattractive. Saying, "Im the richest person here" is unattractive. But telling a story about a trip through europe is incredibly interesting. Know the difference.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to brag is to boast about something in an arrogant way so it is very unattractive, telling someone about a trip to europe is not boasting...unless you state it arrogantly. the definition of bragging is an unattractive one. Your spin on it makes it not boasting but rather telling a story.
 

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Sorry no. Bragging is any deliberate, yet unessesary display of success/talent. A story about a trip through europe is just a tasteful kind of bragging. Duh.
 

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Its a stupid phrase, sorry. Kino roots from kinesthetics - the physical. Eyecontact and tonality are completely unrelated. The terms are sensual eyecontact and tonality. Simple.
 

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i think your definition is for boasting not bragging. And to a tell a story about eurpoe is not bragging at all, in any sense of the word.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Kino roots from kinesthetics - the physical.
Yeah I agree with Tony. Its a contradictory name- Kino is in no way "mental", so how can you call it "mental Kino"?
 
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