"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So i called her and she said that she didnt know me, thanx sosuave
- Thread starter Plain & Simple
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
hungry_american
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
being a dj is about you making the most outta your life and being a responsible adult , becoming self confident.
if you havent learned that then you really should stick around and figure out who you are before you blame the whole site for not getting one girl. she s probally not your dream chick anyhow.
take control of your own destiny and dont blame others dear.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Man yall can go eat a dik.
I knew that this site is full of white people with no understanding of a brother.
Man fuk yall and hate all yall want on me.
Its funny how EEEEEVERRRY SSIIINGLE body said that she played me this that this that, yet she just called me back saying that shes been busy and sorry for not calling me back, i told her its ok and to not let it happen again though, then i simply seted up a date .
man this site gives the wrong advice 85 percent of the times, i think only 1 or 2 persons in this thread said that i still had a chance.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!(lil jon)
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Im not an afc, probally two steps above an AFC, which is not saying much. But anyways, since the new college semester started (one month now) iv gotten 6 phone #'s, 6 solid/good rapport #'s at that, but on everyone of them I have waited 3+ days to call on everyone & so far, everyone of them has flaked on me. I personally really like the 3 day rule, as im fairly busy & I do think it's insaenly needy to call the girl the same day, or even the next- day but it seems that it just leads to flakyness when you wait. Iv decduced that they, the women are so used to AFC's, and players calling them up the same day, or one day after that that they are in their own mind "nexting" the guy that plays the aloof game iunless he was either HOT, or was mad C=F with her the first time meeting. Thoughts/comments guys ?
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
LOL !!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
and HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
oh and before i forget, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
next time you have problems check out: www.youra****ingidiot.com
im shure it'l be of much use to you,, good bye!
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Can anyone else see the immaturity in this post, because I sure can.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
but i apologize if i offended anybody with the comments i made in my previous mode it wasnt my intent, i was just excited and kinda mad that everybody thought that she played me this and that, and it was totally the opposite.
Vibe
Don Juan
Hehe. "Seted."
~Vibe~
everywomanshero
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Guys, I think he may have a point. To be honest, I haven't had any better luck waiting a few days than just calling a day later. It doesn't seem to make any real difference. I've also waited as long as two weeks, some were glad to hear from me others basically didn't want to talk anymore.
The main thing that makes a diff. for me is calling anonymous the first couple of times. Women seem to love the mystery of not knowing who is calling. If they don't take the bait, then I wait a day or so before calling so it's not so obvious I was the anonymous caller
I've still experimenting with callign patterns, but I have yet to find any supporting evidence for the 3 day policy. Definitely we can all agree that calling too much, too soon is a problem
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
People pointed out some of your mistakes and ways would may have gone about it. You act like a 5 year old... remember who was asking for advice in the first place...
not only that but u used the advice that WAS given, and that was use more C/F stuff busting her ass, then just set up the date.
GJ, u sir, are an idiot.
DrMetallica
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hungry_american
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malleus_46
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At first he thought "hey the book didn't work, what's up with that?"
and the book said "this stuff works, if it didn't work it's cause you didn't do it right"
and he said: you guys suck
and a flame war ensued
and then he said: hey she called me back, see, you guys don't know anything.
dude, she called you back because you played it by the book. Some peeps flamed you needlessly, so go ahead and be angry at 'em, but other peeps gave you good advice based on what you told em, so be nice
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
The thing is that nobody that posted in this thread gave me a chance at a date or even at a call back from this girl. Only one person or two the most said i still had a chance and that she wasnt playing me.
The rest, all said that i had messed it up, that she wasnt interested, that, im an idiot, a crybaby, a afc, endless needless insults, and then what happened, the two people that gave me a chance at this were right, she called back, apolagized for not calling back, and agreed on a date with me. we had a 8 min convo, and at the end she even said that she feels good talking to me on the phone, that she gets a good feeling.
Ima take her on the date, first to eat, then ima take her to a place here in miami called "boomers" where they got all type of games, from bowling to minigolf u name it they have it, they even have "candywrestling" believe it or not, ima try to do that with her, she better bring some preety bikini
.But it kinda upsets me in a way, than in every thread everybody gives the wrong advice 90 percent of the times, at leas in my eyes, and this thread proves it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.