"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So i called her and she said that she didnt know me, thanx sosuave
- Thread starter Plain & Simple
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
hungry_american
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
being a dj is about you making the most outta your life and being a responsible adult , becoming self confident.
if you havent learned that then you really should stick around and figure out who you are before you blame the whole site for not getting one girl. she s probally not your dream chick anyhow.
take control of your own destiny and dont blame others dear.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Man yall can go eat a dik.
I knew that this site is full of white people with no understanding of a brother.
Man fuk yall and hate all yall want on me.
Its funny how EEEEEVERRRY SSIIINGLE body said that she played me this that this that, yet she just called me back saying that shes been busy and sorry for not calling me back, i told her its ok and to not let it happen again though, then i simply seted up a date .
man this site gives the wrong advice 85 percent of the times, i think only 1 or 2 persons in this thread said that i still had a chance.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!(lil jon)
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Im not an afc, probally two steps above an AFC, which is not saying much. But anyways, since the new college semester started (one month now) iv gotten 6 phone #'s, 6 solid/good rapport #'s at that, but on everyone of them I have waited 3+ days to call on everyone & so far, everyone of them has flaked on me. I personally really like the 3 day rule, as im fairly busy & I do think it's insaenly needy to call the girl the same day, or even the next- day but it seems that it just leads to flakyness when you wait. Iv decduced that they, the women are so used to AFC's, and players calling them up the same day, or one day after that that they are in their own mind "nexting" the guy that plays the aloof game iunless he was either HOT, or was mad C=F with her the first time meeting. Thoughts/comments guys ?
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
LOL !!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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next time you have problems check out: www.youra****ingidiot.com
im shure it'l be of much use to you,, good bye!
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Can anyone else see the immaturity in this post, because I sure can.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
but i apologize if i offended anybody with the comments i made in my previous mode it wasnt my intent, i was just excited and kinda mad that everybody thought that she played me this and that, and it was totally the opposite.
Vibe
Don Juan
Hehe. "Seted."
~Vibe~
everywomanshero
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Guys, I think he may have a point. To be honest, I haven't had any better luck waiting a few days than just calling a day later. It doesn't seem to make any real difference. I've also waited as long as two weeks, some were glad to hear from me others basically didn't want to talk anymore.
The main thing that makes a diff. for me is calling anonymous the first couple of times. Women seem to love the mystery of not knowing who is calling. If they don't take the bait, then I wait a day or so before calling so it's not so obvious I was the anonymous caller
I've still experimenting with callign patterns, but I have yet to find any supporting evidence for the 3 day policy. Definitely we can all agree that calling too much, too soon is a problem
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
People pointed out some of your mistakes and ways would may have gone about it. You act like a 5 year old... remember who was asking for advice in the first place...
not only that but u used the advice that WAS given, and that was use more C/F stuff busting her ass, then just set up the date.
GJ, u sir, are an idiot.
DrMetallica
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hungry_american
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malleus_46
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At first he thought "hey the book didn't work, what's up with that?"
and the book said "this stuff works, if it didn't work it's cause you didn't do it right"
and he said: you guys suck
and a flame war ensued
and then he said: hey she called me back, see, you guys don't know anything.
dude, she called you back because you played it by the book. Some peeps flamed you needlessly, so go ahead and be angry at 'em, but other peeps gave you good advice based on what you told em, so be nice
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
The thing is that nobody that posted in this thread gave me a chance at a date or even at a call back from this girl. Only one person or two the most said i still had a chance and that she wasnt playing me.
The rest, all said that i had messed it up, that she wasnt interested, that, im an idiot, a crybaby, a afc, endless needless insults, and then what happened, the two people that gave me a chance at this were right, she called back, apolagized for not calling back, and agreed on a date with me. we had a 8 min convo, and at the end she even said that she feels good talking to me on the phone, that she gets a good feeling.
Ima take her on the date, first to eat, then ima take her to a place here in miami called "boomers" where they got all type of games, from bowling to minigolf u name it they have it, they even have "candywrestling" believe it or not, ima try to do that with her, she better bring some preety bikini
.But it kinda upsets me in a way, than in every thread everybody gives the wrong advice 90 percent of the times, at leas in my eyes, and this thread proves it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.