"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So i called her and she said that she didnt know me, thanx sosuave
- Thread starter Plain & Simple
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
hungry_american
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
being a dj is about you making the most outta your life and being a responsible adult , becoming self confident.
if you havent learned that then you really should stick around and figure out who you are before you blame the whole site for not getting one girl. she s probally not your dream chick anyhow.
take control of your own destiny and dont blame others dear.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Man yall can go eat a dik.
I knew that this site is full of white people with no understanding of a brother.
Man fuk yall and hate all yall want on me.
Its funny how EEEEEVERRRY SSIIINGLE body said that she played me this that this that, yet she just called me back saying that shes been busy and sorry for not calling me back, i told her its ok and to not let it happen again though, then i simply seted up a date .
man this site gives the wrong advice 85 percent of the times, i think only 1 or 2 persons in this thread said that i still had a chance.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!! fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!(lil jon)
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
Im not an afc, probally two steps above an AFC, which is not saying much. But anyways, since the new college semester started (one month now) iv gotten 6 phone #'s, 6 solid/good rapport #'s at that, but on everyone of them I have waited 3+ days to call on everyone & so far, everyone of them has flaked on me. I personally really like the 3 day rule, as im fairly busy & I do think it's insaenly needy to call the girl the same day, or even the next- day but it seems that it just leads to flakyness when you wait. Iv decduced that they, the women are so used to AFC's, and players calling them up the same day, or one day after that that they are in their own mind "nexting" the guy that plays the aloof game iunless he was either HOT, or was mad C=F with her the first time meeting. Thoughts/comments guys ?
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
fuk dat im out gotta get my hair braided by friday :woo:
LOL !!!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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and HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
oh and before i forget, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
next time you have problems check out: www.youra****ingidiot.com
im shure it'l be of much use to you,, good bye!
The Nice Guy is Gone
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Can anyone else see the immaturity in this post, because I sure can.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
but i apologize if i offended anybody with the comments i made in my previous mode it wasnt my intent, i was just excited and kinda mad that everybody thought that she played me this and that, and it was totally the opposite.
Vibe
Don Juan
Hehe. "Seted."
~Vibe~
everywomanshero
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Guys, I think he may have a point. To be honest, I haven't had any better luck waiting a few days than just calling a day later. It doesn't seem to make any real difference. I've also waited as long as two weeks, some were glad to hear from me others basically didn't want to talk anymore.
The main thing that makes a diff. for me is calling anonymous the first couple of times. Women seem to love the mystery of not knowing who is calling. If they don't take the bait, then I wait a day or so before calling so it's not so obvious I was the anonymous caller
I've still experimenting with callign patterns, but I have yet to find any supporting evidence for the 3 day policy. Definitely we can all agree that calling too much, too soon is a problem
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
People pointed out some of your mistakes and ways would may have gone about it. You act like a 5 year old... remember who was asking for advice in the first place...
not only that but u used the advice that WAS given, and that was use more C/F stuff busting her ass, then just set up the date.
GJ, u sir, are an idiot.
DrMetallica
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hungry_american
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malleus_46
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At first he thought "hey the book didn't work, what's up with that?"
and the book said "this stuff works, if it didn't work it's cause you didn't do it right"
and he said: you guys suck
and a flame war ensued
and then he said: hey she called me back, see, you guys don't know anything.
dude, she called you back because you played it by the book. Some peeps flamed you needlessly, so go ahead and be angry at 'em, but other peeps gave you good advice based on what you told em, so be nice
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
The thing is that nobody that posted in this thread gave me a chance at a date or even at a call back from this girl. Only one person or two the most said i still had a chance and that she wasnt playing me.
The rest, all said that i had messed it up, that she wasnt interested, that, im an idiot, a crybaby, a afc, endless needless insults, and then what happened, the two people that gave me a chance at this were right, she called back, apolagized for not calling back, and agreed on a date with me. we had a 8 min convo, and at the end she even said that she feels good talking to me on the phone, that she gets a good feeling.
Ima take her on the date, first to eat, then ima take her to a place here in miami called "boomers" where they got all type of games, from bowling to minigolf u name it they have it, they even have "candywrestling" believe it or not, ima try to do that with her, she better bring some preety bikini
.But it kinda upsets me in a way, than in every thread everybody gives the wrong advice 90 percent of the times, at leas in my eyes, and this thread proves it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.