"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So I ask this girl out...
- Thread starter DarkChaos
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You should really get an average part of your INNER game down before starting with your outter game.
But basically:
Did you ask her in an alpha confident way?
Did you looked her in her eyes and smiled before and while asking? (You should look her especially in her left eye, because it is connected with her right sied of her brain, wich is the side of the imagiantion. I could explain you why if you want).
Did you showed your hens so she can grab it?
Did your actions told her it was no big deal for you to go with her? (so she wouldn't feel like she already "had" you?)
Did you had good body language?
NO!
Probably you just approached her and asked her directly in a non confident way while lookign at your own feet with you head down.
Just get your inner game donw first.
If you need help I'll be here.
Hope that helped.
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My advice: pay special attention to DIESEL's post. The one he did on GP.com and the BULKING thing.
You have to metamorph yourself into a MAN. NO WAY a girl would laugh if you projected sexual prowess.
But do not dwell on the negative aspect, never. Get strenght man, use the grief as energy to change. You'll be SO FINE.
Now get to work!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My problem is that I'm not easily attracted to people who I just met, so I take a long time to get to know them, and then somehow I'll suddenly realize that over time I've developed an interest with the person as I've known them as a friend. But obviously by then I'm not on the radar as someone to date.
That and I'm not exactly a natural when it comes to flirting or displaying sexual interest. When that comes into play I stiffen up and can't shake the idea that it would make me look like an ass. It's even more like that in my case since these people are people I've been friends with for a long time, usually, so the change would be weird.
Even though I know that's not quite true since I see it work for other people, but that's the way it is.
I think you're mistaken about what being attracted to someone means here. You know what a good looking girl looks like.. one you'd like to ****.DarkChaos said:My problem is that I'm not easily attracted to people who I just met, so I take a long time to get to know them, and then somehow I'll suddenly realize that over time I've developed an interest with the person as I've known them as a friend. But obviously by then I'm not on the radar as someone to date.
When you say "attracted" in the quote above, I think you mean developing one-itis. Where you've played out a long relationship with the person within the confines of your own imagination. And you feel a connection with this imagined woman. You transpose your feelings for this fantasy onto the real person and put them on a pedestal.
From this day forward, don't ever go the friends route with someone you want to see naked.