shes not out of relationship yet, she will continue ****ing him
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
So I actually made myself approach a girl who was exactly my taste tonight
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shes not out of relationship yet, she will continue ****ing him
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Pretty harmless text. Its not like i asked her to marry me
You guys think this would have really turned her off if she liked me?
no dude you should ask her if she wants some SEXXXX and if its something else than YES then hardnext
What would you recommend? Wait until thursday? Or friday?
Also i want a 1 on 1 date. You guys are all seemingly recommending that i invite her out when I'm hanging out with my friends at a location. I did that once for a 1st date and it worked out terribly
How do I get a 1 on 1 date out of it?
Dave go live before your date, so we can all teach you how to put a tie on, and how to tie your shoes
And don't forget to let her know that back in your country you're considered the most handsome man of your village
And don't forget to let her know that back in your country you're considered the most handsome man of your village
I did a good job in person
I'm not a good writer, I'm not clever or funny. My strength is i have a very good demeanor and how i carry myself. That's how i make friends and am so good at my job. People are drawn to me because I'm genuinely a very good person. That's what i need to focus on and keep the chit chat to a minimum
RickTheToad
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I figured it out. Dave's just pulling a smoke screen. He's kidding around with us. He's a jokester. Funny Dave. Real funny. Had had us going for a while.
Do you think our text conversation really destroyed her attraction?
I don't care about the outcome. I want to make sure I'm doing the process efficiently and correctly
Moving forward, texting only to set up dates until we're seeing each other for a while
shes still banging her ex dude
Dave, save yourself the humiliation. Even if she gives you a pity date, you will probably start talking about what to name your kids. And she will gag, and you will be the topic of discussion as she f*cks her ex or some other guy. If nothing else they will have a topic to discuss between screwing.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
so is losing weight, But tons of people are fat.
Can someone explain this to me?
I need an actual date or 2. My strength is the date, not text game. I need in person opportunity
RickTheToad
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GO TO HAPPY HOURS AND CHAT UP THE LADIES. WORK THE ROOM. GET EXPERIENCE. IT'S NOT THAT HARD!
JESUS.
I want to do that but i want to make sure i follow this lead process correctly all the way through
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Don't let it be at the forefront of your mind constantly just do what Rick said and if she texts you she texts you, if not then you should have some new leads to pursue if you follow Rick's advice and everyone else's for that matter.
RickTheToad
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@bigdave17 is like the teenage brother who's just getting his feet wet in the dating realm. This is not a mathematical problem you can solve with your brain. In fact, you do not have to think on this, just do.
1) Go to the bar.
2) Get a drink (get ginger ale or something with no alcohol if you cannot control yourself when you're buzzed)
3) Walk over to some groups of people and chime in.
4) After a few minutes, go to the next one.
5) Rinse repeat.
6) You see a lady in the corner of your eye looking at you, then looking right away, go and approach. Walk over and chat. What are you drinking. Look at her shoes, say, love the shoes. I can see you have a sense of style. I like that in a lady. Pro tip - have nice looking shoes. After that, just expand. Stay for a few minutes, and then say well, I just wanted to introduce myself, and I going to chat with a few friends over there. IF you are interested, say to her, let's chat again before you leave. If she hangs around or approaches you again, you're in. Get the number and call her 3 - 4 days later, not next morning. If she's in her 20's, text would be better.
YOU: Hey!!! it's Big Dave from the other night at the Roxberry
Her: Oh hey!!!!
YOU: Listen, I'd love to meet up for some drinks this week. What day works for you?
HER: Kewl. I'm free Monday.
YOU: Let's meet at Joe's Bar at 7pm.
HER: Gr8!!
YOU: Anything changes let me know.
HER: U2
Simple and to the point. DON'T TEXT HER AGAIN!
1) Go to the bar.
2) Get a drink (get ginger ale or something with no alcohol if you cannot control yourself when you're buzzed)
3) Walk over to some groups of people and chime in.
4) After a few minutes, go to the next one.
5) Rinse repeat.
6) You see a lady in the corner of your eye looking at you, then looking right away, go and approach. Walk over and chat. What are you drinking. Look at her shoes, say, love the shoes. I can see you have a sense of style. I like that in a lady. Pro tip - have nice looking shoes. After that, just expand. Stay for a few minutes, and then say well, I just wanted to introduce myself, and I going to chat with a few friends over there. IF you are interested, say to her, let's chat again before you leave. If she hangs around or approaches you again, you're in. Get the number and call her 3 - 4 days later, not next morning. If she's in her 20's, text would be better.
YOU: Hey!!! it's Big Dave from the other night at the Roxberry
Her: Oh hey!!!!
YOU: Listen, I'd love to meet up for some drinks this week. What day works for you?
HER: Kewl. I'm free Monday.
YOU: Let's meet at Joe's Bar at 7pm.
HER: Gr8!!
YOU: Anything changes let me know.
HER: U2
Simple and to the point. DON'T TEXT HER AGAIN!
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
The rules and techniques exist as training wheels. You need them right now. Later you will be able to finesse and bend the rules to your own style.
Does it have to be a bar date? I personally do a lot better on action dates, or day dates. You can really reveal your personality much better that way. If you can do an action date, that's when you tell her "I'm doing XYZ. Join me." If it's a bar date or dinner date (neither of which I advise unless you're looking for a quick hookup), then just tell her you're going to be at such and such a place, why not join me? You don't need to tell her the details... friends or whatever. You're planning on going and why doesn't she come with?
Keep it all light and relaxed. If yes, great. If no, great. Doesn't matter. Just play the game.
Does it have to be a bar date? I personally do a lot better on action dates, or day dates. You can really reveal your personality much better that way. If you can do an action date, that's when you tell her "I'm doing XYZ. Join me." If it's a bar date or dinner date (neither of which I advise unless you're looking for a quick hookup), then just tell her you're going to be at such and such a place, why not join me? You don't need to tell her the details... friends or whatever. You're planning on going and why doesn't she come with?
Keep it all light and relaxed. If yes, great. If no, great. Doesn't matter. Just play the game.
You think its a bad idea just to say "hey its Dave did you want to hang out this weekend?" I would much rather do a straight up request than skirt around it by asking her to join me
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
In my view, saying you want her to join you is anything but skirting around it. Women perceive that I am taking charge and asking directly when I do that.
Join me is a direct command and statement of intent, right?
NEVER ask a women if she wants to "hang out". That conveys aimlessness and lack of direction (aka weakness). Have something already planned and then ask her or tell her you'd like her to join you.
Be a man of direction and purpose. That's what all women want us to be, and that's a worthy way to be. You decide what you are doing, and you ask her if she'd like to join you. Do you see the difference in what is conveyed here?
You never want to appear directionless or without intent. Quality men don't ask a girl to hang out. They decide on something to do, and then ask a woman to join them.
A man of decision is hot, hot hot in a woman's eyes. Just ask the women here.
Join me is a direct command and statement of intent, right?
NEVER ask a women if she wants to "hang out". That conveys aimlessness and lack of direction (aka weakness). Have something already planned and then ask her or tell her you'd like her to join you.
Be a man of direction and purpose. That's what all women want us to be, and that's a worthy way to be. You decide what you are doing, and you ask her if she'd like to join you. Do you see the difference in what is conveyed here?
You never want to appear directionless or without intent. Quality men don't ask a girl to hang out. They decide on something to do, and then ask a woman to join them.
A man of decision is hot, hot hot in a woman's eyes. Just ask the women here.
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