"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So how would a DJ respond?

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Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".

Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's prolly the best thing you could say .. at least I can't think of anything better :up:
 
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SeanyB said:
Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".


Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
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Well, what happened?
 
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