"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So how would a DJ respond?

SeanyB

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Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".

Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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That's prolly the best thing you could say .. at least I can't think of anything better :up:
 

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SeanyB said:
Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".


Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not

Well, what happened?
 
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