"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So how would a DJ respond?

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SeanyB

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Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".

Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
 

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That's prolly the best thing you could say .. at least I can't think of anything better :up:
 
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SeanyB said:
Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".


Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
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