"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So how would a DJ respond?

SeanyB

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Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".

Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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faiNt`

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That's prolly the best thing you could say .. at least I can't think of anything better :up:
 

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SeanyB said:
Basically, back in my more AFC days, I got some girls number and things went like this:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

Then a couple weeks later:

I text her, she doesn't text back, I think "oh she must be busy"

You get the drift. So I thought "screw it, it's not worth wasting texts on her anymore" and deleted her number so I wouldnt be tempted to text her.
So I'm walking down the corridor in college today and she walks by with a friend - I blank her completely. Half an hour later I get a message like "Just got credit... hope your not mad... blah blah blah" so I didn't reply until about 10PM saying "Who is this?".


Just wondering wether that was the right thing to do or not

Well, what happened?
 
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