"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So here's where I'm at with this girl .. escalate advice?

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Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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K so laugh + heavy kino, but I need to know what to suggest, how to transition etc
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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faiNt` said:
Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
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Your goal should be to drive her interest level up further through things like kino and action dates, and then pull away suddenly after lots of attention. Initiate lots of tickling and physical contact as previous posters have mentioned. Take her to the beach, take walks around local parks, invite her to parties and strengthen social proof by introducing her to a lot of your friends... and then vanish. Repeat this indefinitely to maintain attraction and of course, NEVER tell her your feelings under any circumstance. Be sure to take pride in your appearance and look your best during all of this.

To transition to something sexual you must get her isolated (I.E. Movie night at her/your house), preferably after an action-packed day, and then make a move. Kiss her when she's at the peak of a positive emotion, for instance right after you have tickled her into submission after a play fight or something. In my experience, right after you cross that threshold into a make-out session, the floodgates are wide open and you can go for whatever you want in that moment without any fear of rejection.
 
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I have asked questions like this before and got similar answers, but I think this guys advice as a whole is the best I have seen so far and the most detailed.

Just to be clear I am refering to TELOS's post, the one right above this one.
 
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