"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So here's where I'm at with this girl .. escalate advice?

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Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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K so laugh + heavy kino, but I need to know what to suggest, how to transition etc
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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faiNt` said:
Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
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Your goal should be to drive her interest level up further through things like kino and action dates, and then pull away suddenly after lots of attention. Initiate lots of tickling and physical contact as previous posters have mentioned. Take her to the beach, take walks around local parks, invite her to parties and strengthen social proof by introducing her to a lot of your friends... and then vanish. Repeat this indefinitely to maintain attraction and of course, NEVER tell her your feelings under any circumstance. Be sure to take pride in your appearance and look your best during all of this.

To transition to something sexual you must get her isolated (I.E. Movie night at her/your house), preferably after an action-packed day, and then make a move. Kiss her when she's at the peak of a positive emotion, for instance right after you have tickled her into submission after a play fight or something. In my experience, right after you cross that threshold into a make-out session, the floodgates are wide open and you can go for whatever you want in that moment without any fear of rejection.
 
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I have asked questions like this before and got similar answers, but I think this guys advice as a whole is the best I have seen so far and the most detailed.

Just to be clear I am refering to TELOS's post, the one right above this one.
 
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