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So here's where I'm at with this girl .. escalate advice?

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Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
 

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K so laugh + heavy kino, but I need to know what to suggest, how to transition etc
 

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faiNt` said:
Ok, met a girl middle of last school year, hung out at her house once when she had a boyfriend, got her number the same meeting, walked with her to class most days, and she showed interest as far as I know. Before the year ended she said I wouldn't see her unless I called her over the summer (people have told me this means she WANTS me to call) .. question ..

Once I go over her house, how do I escalate from walking in the door greeting her with a hug to having some fun in her basement :D (answer this if I was sure she was interested)
Your goal should be to drive her interest level up further through things like kino and action dates, and then pull away suddenly after lots of attention. Initiate lots of tickling and physical contact as previous posters have mentioned. Take her to the beach, take walks around local parks, invite her to parties and strengthen social proof by introducing her to a lot of your friends... and then vanish. Repeat this indefinitely to maintain attraction and of course, NEVER tell her your feelings under any circumstance. Be sure to take pride in your appearance and look your best during all of this.

To transition to something sexual you must get her isolated (I.E. Movie night at her/your house), preferably after an action-packed day, and then make a move. Kiss her when she's at the peak of a positive emotion, for instance right after you have tickled her into submission after a play fight or something. In my experience, right after you cross that threshold into a make-out session, the floodgates are wide open and you can go for whatever you want in that moment without any fear of rejection.
 

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I have asked questions like this before and got similar answers, but I think this guys advice as a whole is the best I have seen so far and the most detailed.

Just to be clear I am refering to TELOS's post, the one right above this one.
 
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