"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So.....her HUSBAND called me today

jaybeezi

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So I've been talking to this girl for awhile, things were going kinda slowly, she wouldnt give me her # at first, then she told me she was over moving 2 hours away, then that she was moving back, then after a month of no contact she calls me at 1am, then again after a month of no contact she calls me at 2am and tells me she's moving again.

We were supposed to meet somewhere and she showed up late, and I had already left (she was over 1hr late), and now today some guy calls me and asks if I know her, where I know her from etc... and tells me that she's married, and if I talk to her again he's gonna come after me blah blah blah.

I'm definately not going to try and see her again, but I dont like being threatened....not that I cant see where he's coming from...but yea, what the hell is wrong with girls these days days, i'm still trying to get out of my afc ways, I seriously dont need this shyt.

Just wanted to tell some people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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uh oh, does he know your number? it's quite bad if he knows your home base


:(


other than that stay away ahaha, poor you
 

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WTF is he calling you for... if I were you I'd bang her and then mail him the tape
 

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yea, he called me today

me: hello
him: who is this
me: who are you
him: who is this
me: you called me
him: did u call me yesterday
me: ?
him: at 555-5555, do u know (name)
me: ya
him: ok
'click'

then he called again 5 min later

me:hello
him:hey you, just to let u know (name) is married, and if I find out that you talk to her or see her again i'm gonna come after you, ok
me:.........she is? uhh, ya, alright, well thats not something I would do, thats not me, so u dont have to worry about that, and u dont need to try and threaten me.
him.....
'click'
 

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It's always rediculous when people call to make threats over the phone. The smartest thing to do would be to drop this chick immediately. Did you know she was married?

It's probably no big deal in the long run, but if bro has your home number and a vindictive nature, you might need to be ready for some BS.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i love when guys threaten other guys that are messing with their women. the only smart thing to do is to drop the chick. anything else is moronic.
 

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I'm always amazed when guys/husbands call the 'other guy' to threaten them.
Seems to me they should be talking to their wife/girlfriend to understand what's going on. It wouldn't deter me. If the situation is unworkable for the 'husband', he should leave her - what good will come from threatening you 'the other guy' or worse the woman ? And here's some good advice: be careful who you threaten - you don't know what your dealing with...
 
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HAHAHA

You should have told him to shut the fukk up and that you would whup his ass and still talk to his wife...
 

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no, I didnt know she was married.

She just called me, and apparently had no idea that I her husband had called me, I told her a guy called me and said that she was married, and she said "what, no" and then I told her that he said it was his phone and asked if I knew u etc... and she said "no its my phone, hey i'll call you back, I have to check something"....o..k..
 

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Dude, you're scaring me... :p I'll just see how my situation pans out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Married?????

If she is married-----GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!

Damy
 

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!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

The call is comming from inside the house.....
 

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Originally posted by jaybeezi
no, I didnt know she was married.

She just called me, and apparently had no idea that I her husband had called me, I told her a guy called me and said that she was married, and she said "what, no" and then I told her that he said it was his phone and asked if I knew u etc... and she said "no its my phone, hey i'll call you back, I have to check something"....o..k..
She never called back, what a surprise. We had planned to get together today, before I got the news that she was married. I guess for some odd reason she changed her mind. All my friends warned me about her, shoulda listened.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If shes going to cheat on him, she'll do it with anyone. something Mr.dumbsh|t has to realise, instead of threatening people
 

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Hmm...yeah, best to just be civil and say "sorry, I didn' t know." But if he calls again, just be like, "Look, I don't go around looking for married chicks and she didn't say sh!t to me about a husband, so grow some nuts and put your slutty-azz wife back in line, cuz if I'm not banging her, someone else will."
 

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WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT? :confused:
Call the cops? Be civil? Apologize?

It's obvious that this woman wanted to start an affair of hot passioante sex with no strings attached! Once you made a big deal about it and probabbly soudned like a pvssy she got turned off and now she'll go find somebody else that will want to fvck her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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