"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So can anybody help improve my looks

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you plan on being a blue collar worker, I suggest tatoos (neck forearm back). Chicks LOVEEE tats. Other than that just start lifting as if you're gonna be a bodybuilder someday

As for clothes, I like shirts from www.designedbyhumans.com I know alot of people here are against the whole graphic-T thing, but I think you really standout with those types of shirts
 

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JPlaya said:
http://i644.photobucket.com/albums/uu170/poptart180/045.jpg

This was late at night and I usually wear ralph lauren polos and shorts when I'm out with friends or at school. If I don't care what I'm dressing up I'll usually just wear my high school shirts with shorts. I've started working out and I'm trying to get bigger. People also say I dress up like I'm going to golf or something.
Work out and add muscle. Keep your shape up on your hair fresh. If you can get a T Blade machine so you can keep your hair line straight and fresh all the time when you dont have time or money to get a hair cut. You'll be alright.
 

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JPlaya said:
http://i644.photobucket.com/albums/uu170/poptart180/045.jpg

This was late at night and I usually wear ralph lauren polos and shorts when I'm out with friends or at school. If I don't care what I'm dressing up I'll usually just wear my high school shirts with shorts. I've started working out and I'm trying to get bigger. People also say I dress up like I'm going to golf or something.

all you need is a good high quality hair cut (maybe grow a small goaty) and more confidence in you facial expressions... many young black females will like you but you cant compete against those light skin girly pretty boy type they just love soooo much..lol

If you are trying to get laid quick by the young popular urban girls you (the preppy polo look is out of style..lol)will need some dreads and large "diamond" ear rings. wear some adidas abercrombie or aeropostale etc.. and air jordans on your feet ...its all about being in style and hanging with other stylish dudes..!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You look kinda like this guy I played JV and Varsity high school football with. Anyway, just start lifting heavy and eating clean and you'll be good to go. Also, wear more fitted shirts when you get a bit bigger.
 

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Lol wtf im like the whitest black guy causei grew up in a nice area
 

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JPlaya said:
Lol wtf im like the whitest black guy causei grew up in a nice area
Not as much as me though! I think you need muscles and confidence. Money helps too!
 

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JPlaya said:
http://i644.photobucket.com/albums/uu170/poptart180/045.jpg

This was late at night and I usually wear ralph lauren polos and shorts when I'm out with friends or at school. If I don't care what I'm dressing up I'll usually just wear my high school shirts with shorts. I've started working out and I'm trying to get bigger. People also say I dress up like I'm going to golf or something.

1. You might want to get a fade or some 360 waves.
2. Put in some work at the gym. 12 weeks will do wonders for you.

also, come over to http://officialupa.19.forumer.com/index.php and chop it up with some of the playas over there. They have a better urban perspective there, not that the game here isn't helpful.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JPlaya said:
I'm not going to be a blue collar worker though
JPlaya said:
Lol wtf im like the whitest black guy causei grew up in a nice area
JPlaya said:
But im not urban

JPlaya, you are seriously the king of the worthless response. Dudes will spend 15 minutes writing up some 2-paragraph response to you, and all you'll have to say is some sh1t like, "but I dont wanna".. Are you slow?

And THIS is why I don't deal with you anymore. Accept the advice that pertains to you. Ignore what doesn't. Considering that no one here knows your personality, that's the best you can do.
 

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Hey bro, why not just get a woman (could be a relative) to help you out with your looks?? Women LOVE makeovers; just watch any daytime talk show. You could even ask a female store clerk in a clothing store to help you find clothes that compliment you. I think that's much more beneficial than asking a bunch of guys how to improve your looks....
 

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Good suggestion. The thing is I dont act urban to begin with and im trying to attract white girls. Im probably due for a haircut and im able to go the gym but like twice a week. Anything i can do in between
 

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JPlaya said:
Lol wtf im like the whitest black guy causei grew up in a nice area
You give white people too much credit for being civilized. Ever see the trash in a trailer park? Yeah. Being civilized and well off has nothing to do with race.

As far as improving appearance sure you can grow some facial hair. You can also put on some muscle to fit in that shirt better. The rest is style. Don't wear trashy clothes that are ripped and ****. They're the style now... but the classics always work.

Nice suit. Some nice polo shirts, medium fit jeans made of quality material with a slight stretch and good stitching ($60 minimum)... etc.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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JPlaya said:
Good suggestion. The thing is I dont act urban to begin with and im trying to attract white girls. Im probably due for a haircut and im able to go the gym but like twice a week. Anything i can do in between

You can't go wrong with floor exercises. Oh and white girls like athletic black guys usually. (Lol, I got quite a bit of exp in that area) Like others said on here, just keep a decent haircut and stay lifting.
 

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Chicks dig some style. White black whatev, get some swagger, don't wear f*cking polo shirts and jeans - lame. Get some trendy clothes that fit you well and some simple, but interesting bling. I've noticed that dudes with the most outlandish and unique style have a leg up, they are more noticable. That shirt was fine, but maybe with a unique blazer and some torn jeans and dress shoes.
 

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Grow facial hair, get buff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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