"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So been no fapping for like 3 or for months

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It has nothing to do with you not masturbating. It has to do with your mindset. You're a horny mofo.. That's all it is. There should be more things in life that turn you on, not just women, but cars, money, doing good, etc etc
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Funny, the last time I went days without purging, I was semi dormant for days after. It's a muscle, like any other. Use it, or loose it!
 

El Payaso

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
 

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
Agreed.

I'm trying to do it to reprogram my sexual desires. I find my tastes have become more so much so that normal sex doesn't excite me physically and I end up with a semi.

So- I'm trying to do it to resensitize my pen*s and so I can enjoy sex and bust again.

Currently I almost never bust via penetration and never with a condom.

Trying to fix it- everything I've read SA s go cold turkey for 30+ days.
 
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