"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So been no fapping for like 3 or for months

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It has nothing to do with you not masturbating. It has to do with your mindset. You're a horny mofo.. That's all it is. There should be more things in life that turn you on, not just women, but cars, money, doing good, etc etc
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Funny, the last time I went days without purging, I was semi dormant for days after. It's a muscle, like any other. Use it, or loose it!
 

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
 

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
Agreed.

I'm trying to do it to reprogram my sexual desires. I find my tastes have become more so much so that normal sex doesn't excite me physically and I end up with a semi.

So- I'm trying to do it to resensitize my pen*s and so I can enjoy sex and bust again.

Currently I almost never bust via penetration and never with a condom.

Trying to fix it- everything I've read SA s go cold turkey for 30+ days.
 
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