Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So been no fapping for like 3 or for months

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It has nothing to do with you not masturbating. It has to do with your mindset. You're a horny mofo.. That's all it is. There should be more things in life that turn you on, not just women, but cars, money, doing good, etc etc
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Funny, the last time I went days without purging, I was semi dormant for days after. It's a muscle, like any other. Use it, or loose it!
 

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
 

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No fap just makes you more desperate especially if you used to be a chronic masturbator. Society conditions men to feel guilty about masturbation and even shames them but for women it's empowering and more accepting.

There are women out there actively campaigning to ban sex toys for men because they know that once a man gets off, he doesn't really need a woman again. It scares them.

Also, when you are extremely horny from no-fap, your standards drop because you just want to fvck anything with a wet hole no matter how disgusting she is.

Masturbate. Just don't be chronic about it. If you don't want to masturbate, fill your schedule up. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. You usually only want to masturbate when you are bored at home doing nothing. Be active and fill your time up. At most, you'll only be able to get in a session once in a while which is perfectly normal and healthy.
Agreed.

I'm trying to do it to reprogram my sexual desires. I find my tastes have become more so much so that normal sex doesn't excite me physically and I end up with a semi.

So- I'm trying to do it to resensitize my pen*s and so I can enjoy sex and bust again.

Currently I almost never bust via penetration and never with a condom.

Trying to fix it- everything I've read SA s go cold turkey for 30+ days.
 
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